Our lives are better because of Emily.
She left an unforgettable impression on everyone she met.
Her tragic passing has left an ache in the hearts of everyone who knew and loved her,
yet her impact continues to resonate in every life she touched.
Even without the justice she deserved, her spirit remains unshaken—
a reminder that there is strength in love,
in connection,
and in standing together to honor her life and legacy.
When we stand with Emily, we carry her light forward—
today and every day after.
Emily Steinhoff James was the kind of person who poured her heart into everything she did. She served her country as an Army veteran, fought for fairness as a public defender, and carried her deep sense of justice through every part of her life. After earning her law degree from UNC Chapel Hill, she began her career in South Dakota, advocating for those who needed a voice. But family was everything to her, and she eventually returned to North Carolina to be closer to the people she loved while continuing to make a difference.
Emily’s impact wasn’t just in the courtroom. She was a creative force, lighting up the Raleigh arts community as a performer and assistant director at Raleigh Little Theatre. Whether on stage or behind the scenes, she had a way of bringing people together and leaving a lasting impression.
But more than anything, Emily was about love—fierce, unwavering love. Her young son has spent the past year without the mother who was his biggest source of love and support, the person who would have been his fiercest advocate and guiding light. Life without her has been unimaginably hard, and the void she left behind is something no child should have to endure.
She was also a role model to so many—always there to offer advice, lend a hand, or cheer them on when they needed it most. The impact she had on their lives won’t be forgotten.
Still, the love she gave hasn’t gone anywhere. It’s carried forward by the people she touched—the ones who will always remember her kindness, strength, and compassion. Her impact doesn’t end here.
We honor Emily by living the way she did: with love, empathy, and a fierce commitment to what’s right.
Learn more about Emily’s life and story here.
Emily Steinhoff James, proudly serving in the U.S. Army, a testament to her courage, dedication, and unwavering commitment to helping others.
Emily crowned winner at Raleigh Little Theatre’s 2020 Divas! competition, honoring her talent and commitment to supporting the arts.
Emily was glowing with joy during her pregnancy, embracing the journey to motherhood.
Emily’s love for the arts was evident in her work with Raleigh Little Theatre, where she participated in productions, served as an assistant stage manager, and was crowned RLT Diva in 2020. Her passion for theatre brought joy to many and showcased her incredible talents. Learn more about her involvement here.